There is no text-book way on how to flirt with someone, contrary to what people want you to believe. There are different strokes for different folks. It is all about the environment and energy. In this social media and online dating climate, flirting has become a bit easier – especially if you do not have to converse in person. But what about the good ‘old-fashioned’ way of doing things (such as meeting them in person, and not online!). Hey, it minimizes you being ‘catfished!’
Well, without further ado, here are some suggestions to get you started – let us know how they work!
Make eye contact: Whenever you get into a conversation, make sure you look deeply into his eyes. You might want to make it look as if you were lost, for a moment, gazing at his eyes. Also, hint a slight smile when you do this. This tactic will undoubtedly drive him crazy for you.
Give him compliments: Compliment him, but do not throw around compliments. Make sure you give him compliments only when you genuinely mean them. You might want to flatter him with your most sincere compliments.
Be very confident: You do not need to feel shy or embarrassed when you flirt with him. Be bold about it, not aggressive. This will surely make him admire you all the more. When you are very upfront about your thoughts, he will certainly start giving you more importance.
The touch barrier: You might want to brush your fingers with his slowly or lightly tap his shoulder or knee-cap, lean in a while listening to him. He can’t miss these playful gestures of yours, and these will provide him a hint of what’s cooking.
Talk to him: This means you need to have excellent conversation skills. Guys are usually very secretive in the beginning, and you need to make him comfortable around you and let him talk. Surely this should help in breaking the ice and make you guys more relaxed around each other. Peep the scene to see if there is a common ground between the two of you.
Pay attention to how you look: To start, some people may be into visual appearance before they get to know the inner pretty in you. So, a certain amount of physical attraction may be vital for him to develop initial interest in you.
Have a fascinating hobby: When you are active and are very much involved in your own life, this gives your guy friend more reasons to be interested in you. Having a hobby is not just fun; it also provides for great conversation starters. If you think you do not have an exciting hobby, you could find his hobby and try that for a change. This will not just impress him, but you two will even end up spending more time with each other!
Well, we hope these tips help you along in your conversation and ‘flirtatious’ quest, however, we do recommend that you make sure that you don’t break too many hearts! And, when all else fails, we may have a shirt, bag, or product to get the flirting moving along!